There are moments in our lives that will ultimately change us forever. Exactly 12 years ago to this day, I had one of those moments.
On April 20 1999, I vividly remember being horrified, confused and absolutely terrified as I watched the news about the Columbine High School shootings. As a 5th grader at the time, I never could imagine there were people out there, who would ruthlessly walk into a school and just start killing their fellow classmates. I couldn’t fathom what would possess somebody to do something so heinous to the people that they saw everyday in their classes.
Fast forward eight years, it tragically happened again. This time on a larger scale at Virginia Tech, and just four days before the somber anniversary of the Columbine shootings.
This post- and video (see below)- are meant to remind everyone- that despite our differences, we are all human. There is no reason to bully, fight or God forbid kill people just because they are different and/or have bullied you in the past.
There is no reason, for instance, why two high school misfits should terrorize a school- and an entire nation- with a deadly shooting rampage. Or, why we pick on people either in the office or out in about at events. There’s no excuse and it’s a pure tragedy. As a country, we pride ourselves on having all these freedoms, such as being independent and having the freedom of speech. But yet, we pick on anyone, who is a bit different and dares to go against traditional U.S. norms. There’s no excuse for it and it’s downright wrong and unfair.
Unfortunately, it usually takes a tragedy, like the Virginia Tech and Columbine shootings, to make people wake up and realize the errs of our ways.
Besides, I guarantee everyone of us has flaws! We are all unique and different. It’s those unique characteristics that make us HUMAN. We need to step up and embrace our uniqueness. Own up to your strengths and your flaws both in person and online.
Why don’t you focus on the small gestures that make day to day life more enjoyable for all. A pat on the back, a smile, a free hug, or an unexpected compliment at work are all simple gestures that make each and everyone of our days just a bit brighter.
I urge everyone to stop hating. Go ahead and spread those simple gestures at home, at work and while out in about! Who’s with me?
*Sidenote: This is a more personal post than what I normally write about. But, it’s something that I’m really passionate about.
